Posted in Culture, Men & Women, Observation, Opinion, Philosophical, Relationships, hmmm... on Dec 26th, 2007 No Comments »
Not unsurprisingly, it really twitches my skirt when people apply generalizations to sex and relationships. It causes me physical pain when I consider the paucity of logic behind many accepted sex truisms. Why do we continue to believe that having sex on a first date is the relationship equivalent of walking under a ladder while […]
Posted in Bloggers, Men & Women, Observation, Phone Sex, Sex Work on Dec 18th, 2007 No Comments »
Humans have needs. Sexual needs and the need for companionship. Some people are very aware of what their needs are, can even spot what is sex, what is loneliness, as well as when/where/if the two intersect. Most of these are the folks who call PSOs or hire some shade of sex worker because going it […]
Posted in Funny, Man Speak, Men & Women, Observation on Dec 8th, 2007 No Comments »
Sex: the pleasure is momentary, the position ridiculous, and the expense damnable.
Lord Chesterfield
Posted in Marriage, Men & Women, Religion, hmmm... on Nov 24th, 2007 No Comments »
Marital intercourse is certainly holy, lawful and praiseworthy in itself and profitable to society, yet in certain circumstances it can prove dangerous, as when through excess the soul is made sick with venial sin, or through the violation and perversion of its primary end, killed by mortal sin; such perversion, detestable […]
Posted in Authors, Man Speak, Men & Women, Observation, Opinion on Nov 22nd, 2007 No Comments »
What more fiendish proof of cosmic irresponsibility than a Nature which, having invented sex as a way to mix genes, then permits to arise, amid all its perfumed and hypnotic inducements to mate, a tireless tribe of spirochetes and viruses that torture and kill us for following orders?
John Updike
Posted in BDSM, Female Domination, Men & Women, Observation, Relationships on Nov 14th, 2007 No Comments »
The women want a man whose capacity for communication exceeds his cravings:
Write sentences, punctuate and capitalize.
Desire to please in a way that isn’t just a lust to be enslaved.
Whose sexuality isn’t just a checklist of fetishes.
Can relate and respond to her without reducing her to a cliché.
All too many men seem to be caught up […]
Posted in Men & Women, Observation, Woman Speak on Sep 16th, 2007 No Comments »
Sex is metaphysical for men, as it is not for women. Women have no problem to solve through sex. Physically and psychologically, they are serenely self-contained. They may choose to achieve, but they do not need it. They are not thrust into the beyond by their own fractious bodies. But men […]
Posted in Men & Women, Observation on Sep 5th, 2007 No Comments »
The war between the sexes is the only one in which both sides regularly sleep with the enemy.
Quentin Crisp
Posted in Men & Women, Observation, Sex Battles on Apr 4th, 2007 No Comments »
When a man gives his opinion he’s a man. When a woman gives her opinion she’s a bitch.
Bette Davis
Posted in Authors, Bloggers, Culture, Men & Women, hmmm... on Jul 17th, 2006 No Comments »
If a dog wants to have sex, it just chases down the nearest bitch (or chair or pant leg) and humps it. For the dog, rape is more or less the normal form of sex. If that’s true in nature, though, why is it that humans don’t act this way? Certainly the vestiges of this […]
Posted in Lust, Men & Women, hmmm... on Oct 23rd, 2005 No Comments »
Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. ‘Yes’ is the answer.
Swami X