Intimacy is based on shared vulnerability…nothing deepens intimacy like the experiences that we share when we feel flayed, with our skins off, scared and vulnerable, and our partner is there with us, willing to share in the scary stuff.
Dossie Eastman and Katherine Liszt (The Ethical Slut)
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Posted in Love, Lust on Mar 27th, 2008 No Comments »
Love is a matter of chemistry; Sex is a matter of physics.
Unknown
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Romantic love is nature’s way of duping us into reproducing our species.
Schopenhauer
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Nothing takes the taste out of peanut butter quite like unrequited love.
Charlie Brown (via Charles M. Schulz)
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Posted in Literature, Love, Lust on Jan 26th, 2008 No Comments »
‘Love comforteth like sunshine after rain,
But Lust’s effect is tempest after sun;
Love’s gentle spring doth always fresh remain,
Lust’s winter comes ere summer half be done;
Love surfeits not, Lust like a glutton dies;
Love is all truth, Lust full of forged lies.
William Shakespeare (Venus and Adonis)
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Love and sex can go together and sex and unlove can go together and love and unsex can go together. But personal love and personal sex is bad.
Andy Warhol
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In particular I may mention Sophocles the poet, who was once asked in my presence, ”How do you feel about love, Sophocles? are you still capable of it?” to which he replied, ”Hush! if you please: to my great delight I have escaped from it, and feel as if I had escaped from a […]
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Embraces are cominglings from the head even to the feet, and not a pompous high priest entering by a secret place.
William Blake
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Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it’s cracked up to be. That’s why people are so cynical about it. . . . It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don’t risk anything, you risk […]
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Posted in Fetish, Love on Dec 30th, 2007 No Comments »
The beloved is the ultimate fetish.
Mason Cooley
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… while the purely carnal sight of this woman, by perpetually renewing his doubts about the qualities of her face, her body, of all her beauty, weakened his love, these doubts were destroyed, his love was ensured when it was based instead on the elements of a more reliable aesthetic; furthermore, the kiss and the […]
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Posted in Love, Lust, Woman Speak on Oct 18th, 2007 No Comments »
Does it really matter what these affectionate people do, so long as they don’t do it in the streets and frighten the horses?
Marlene Dietrich
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