Pardon My French

And how politely the bitch “sensuality” knows how to beg for a piece of spirit when she is refused a piece of flesh!
Friedrich Nietzsche

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Being your slave, what should I do but tend
Upon the hours and times of your desire?
I have no precious time at all to spend,
Nor services to do, till you require.
Nor dare I chide the world-without-end hour
Whilst I, my sovereign, watch the clock for you,
Nor think the bitterness of absence sour
When you have bid your servant […]

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Sometimes, being a bitch is all a woman has.
From the movie Dolores Clairborne

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There are many ways of being a dominant. I respect other Dominatrixes in all their different styles. But I think there are misconceptions in the world about how one must behave to be a Domme. I am not an angry person. I do not hate men, and want to punish them […]

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In general I’m positively inclined toward professional dominatrices. Partly because they are often blamed for ills - male behavior and tastes - that aren’t their fault.
Anyone who watches such things can’t help but have noticed over the last couple of years of wannabe virtual ProDommes and the legions of worthless […]

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Remember: consensual erotic power exchange – whatever phrase or group of initials you use to describe it – is about self-fulfillment. Fulfillment for two or more people.
If the bottom, submissive person, slave isn’t happy then he or she will leave. Or be as sad as anyone forcing themselves to stay in a failed relationship.
Likewise […]

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Dominant women (as they are broadly and consistently portrayed) don’t just get to be mean in fun, likey and likeable ways - being playful and sexualised and motivated by a desire for the sexay, the suffering, the beauty and the bravery. We have to be physically attractive yet mentally repulsive. Motivated only by the evils. […]

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There are thousands of kinky men - masochists, fetishists, humiliation aficionados - who can pretend to be submissive in exactly the ways they want to be, to someone they’re paying to give them only the domination they can handle.
In a pro role our preferences conveniently match up with theirs and we’ll […]

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There are two reasons I don’t think in terms of lifestyle D/s.
I will always need a fair amount of time under my own control, devoted to my own goals and purposes. Without that space in which I grow and evolve I would cease to be myself. Richard would wither.
Though I’ll confess that Destiny and chance […]

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There are far more submissive people out there than slaves, simply because it’s much more difficult to be a full-time slave. Ironically, it takes a strong person to be an obedient slave. It takes a lot of courage to put one’s feelings and emotions on a shelf and be completely selfless to another person. The […]

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I am a very dominant and sexually oriented woman. I can become very aroused at the thought of getting rough with you. A good hard spanking with my crop is probably just what you need to start your cock throbbing in the clutches of one of my restraints.
Mistress Rayne (Rayne’s Realm)

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It’s hot in here and your skin tastes like meta
(Is that blood?)
I am blade to your flesh
That which bleeds the sin from you
Your tears
Are the salt I rub in your wounds
And your pain
Is my new obsession
I will swallow it whole
Isabel Blyss

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