Posted in BDSM, Bloggers, Fem Domme, Female Domination, Observation, Phone Sex, Sex Work on Feb 8th, 2008 No Comments »
In general I’m positively inclined toward professional dominatrices. Partly because they are often blamed for ills - male behavior and tastes - that aren’t their fault.
Anyone who watches such things can’t help but have noticed over the last couple of years of wannabe virtual ProDommes and the legions of worthless […]
Posted in Authors, Bloggers, Sexy Words on Feb 5th, 2008 No Comments »
I find good grammar sexy. There’s something about a properly honed turn of phrase that can make me a bit damp around the lacy bits, sometimes even if the sentiment expressed is profoundly lacking in apparent sensuality. Grammar, you see, is nothing more than a set of rules that order discourse, […]
Posted in Bloggers, Erotic, Fantasy, Passion, Philosophical on Jan 21st, 2008 No Comments »
I want to create scenarios that — at least most of the time — should never, ever see the light of reality. And I like the romantic mystery and intrigue created by two voices touching each other intimately with just our whispered, secret desires.
Angela St. Lawrence
Posted in BDSM, Bloggers, Female Domination, Observation, Philosophical on Jan 17th, 2008 No Comments »
Remember: consensual erotic power exchange – whatever phrase or group of initials you use to describe it – is about self-fulfillment. Fulfillment for two or more people.
If the bottom, submissive person, slave isn’t happy then he or she will leave. Or be as sad as anyone forcing themselves to stay in a failed relationship.
Likewise […]
Posted in BDSM, Bloggers, Erotic, Fem Domme, Opinion on Jan 11th, 2008 No Comments »
To me, being a Domme means being able to very gently, very persuasively stroke his mind, stirring his wants and needs to such a frenzy that he is begging to give me exactly what I want and leaving him surprised to find that what I want is what he wants also.
Lady Julia
Posted in BDSM, Bloggers, Female Domination, Opinion, hmmm... on Jan 10th, 2008 No Comments »
Dominant women (as they are broadly and consistently portrayed) don’t just get to be mean in fun, likey and likeable ways - being playful and sexualised and motivated by a desire for the sexay, the suffering, the beauty and the bravery. We have to be physically attractive yet mentally repulsive. Motivated only by the evils. […]
Posted in Bloggers, Erotic Humiliation, Fem Domme, Genital, Kink on Jan 7th, 2008 No Comments »
I finally started to understand erotic humiliation, and how it could be erotic, for both the giver and the receiver. I could never experience it as erotic to give until I understood what it was like to enjoy it from the other end.* I had to experience it myself a few times […]
Posted in Authors, BDSM, Bloggers, Observation on Jan 5th, 2008 No Comments »
As BDSMers, we tap into the natural human drive to give and to receive pain. We do so fully conscious of what we are doing, and we control and direct the drive with a goal: to give ourselves and/or our partners PLEASURE. It is, perhaps, the hardest concept to explain to the non-kinky masses. We […]
Posted in Bloggers, Erotic, Lust, Men & Women, Observation, Passion on Jan 4th, 2008 No Comments »
Every body has a pull. A magnetism in this curved space. And when one object is larger than another – the smaller object, if it comes too close, falls under the spell of the larger body’s physical gravity.
The Provocateur (in CRUSH)
Posted in BDSM, Bloggers, Erotic, Fantasy, Passion on Jan 3rd, 2008 No Comments »
I thrust my tongue down your throat. I burned with love for your strength as much as I wanted to conquer it.
Richard (in My Beautiful Masochist)
Posted in Bloggers, Fantasy, Fem Domme, Female Domination, Observation, Phone Sex on Dec 28th, 2007 No Comments »
There are thousands of kinky men - masochists, fetishists, humiliation aficionados - who can pretend to be submissive in exactly the ways they want to be, to someone they’re paying to give them only the domination they can handle.
In a pro role our preferences conveniently match up with theirs and we’ll […]
Posted in Bloggers, Funny, Lust, Men & Women, Relationships, hmmm... on Dec 27th, 2007 No Comments »
He was 6′4″ and his penis was on the small side. He was a premature ejaculator and he had this song playing on his website. He was big and hairy and ridiculous and I loved every lie he told me. When I expressed interest in humping his assault rifle, he followed […]