Posted in Bloggers, Phone Sex on Mar 8th, 2008 No Comments »
DO allow me to spend a couple of minutes getting to know you.
DO tell me what turns you on. I’m not a mind reader… no matter how much I wish I were.
DO tell me if I’m taking your fantasy in a direction you don’t like. If you need every detail to be […]
Posted in Bloggers, Fetish, Kink, Observation, hmmm... on Feb 29th, 2008 No Comments »
Has anybody stopped to marvel, lately, at what a wonderful world it has become for folks with numerically minor fetishes? There’s the internet for finding and meeting (and fucking) kindred souls, there’s a growing “whatever floats your boat†sentiment among civilized people, and there’s a robust world economy for sex toys […]
Posted in BDSM, Bloggers, Fem Domme, Phone Sex, Woman Speak on Feb 21st, 2008 No Comments »
I don’t want a bad boy to treat me wrong and assert his individuality all over my carpet. I want a tractable, studious wimp. I want a shiny 250 pound robot and I want the remote. I want my own personal Jesus to nail up over my bed. I want a disciple to wash […]
Posted in BDSM, Bloggers, Female Domination, Observation, Sex Work on Feb 19th, 2008 No Comments »
There are many ways of being a dominant. I respect other Dominatrixes in all their different styles. But I think there are misconceptions in the world about how one must behave to be a Domme. I am not an angry person. I do not hate men, and want to punish them […]
Posted in Bloggers, Fetish, Kink on Feb 18th, 2008 No Comments »
I’m a live action kind of guy. While we should all god bless porn for it being there to get us through the arid times, in person freakdom carries a carnal blessing that only could come from a leather-clad nun in provacative pumps…
Creepy Older Guy
Posted in Authors, Bloggers, Masturbation, Phone Sex, Sex Work, Sexy Words on Feb 9th, 2008 No Comments »
It doesn’t matter what the theme, the client, or the publication; when I write an erotic story I get aroused. Not merely aroused, but that restless sex hunger that demands to be fed.
Secondhand Rose in (in Whenever I Write a Story)
Posted in BDSM, Bloggers, Fem Domme, Female Domination, Observation, Phone Sex, Sex Work on Feb 8th, 2008 No Comments »
In general I’m positively inclined toward professional dominatrices. Partly because they are often blamed for ills - male behavior and tastes - that aren’t their fault.
Anyone who watches such things can’t help but have noticed over the last couple of years of wannabe virtual ProDommes and the legions of worthless […]
Posted in Authors, Bloggers, Sexy Words on Feb 5th, 2008 No Comments »
I find good grammar sexy. There’s something about a properly honed turn of phrase that can make me a bit damp around the lacy bits, sometimes even if the sentiment expressed is profoundly lacking in apparent sensuality. Grammar, you see, is nothing more than a set of rules that order discourse, […]
Posted in Bloggers, Erotic, Fantasy, Passion, Philosophical on Jan 21st, 2008 No Comments »
I want to create scenarios that — at least most of the time — should never, ever see the light of reality. And I like the romantic mystery and intrigue created by two voices touching each other intimately with just our whispered, secret desires.
Angela St. Lawrence
Posted in BDSM, Bloggers, Female Domination, Observation, Philosophical on Jan 17th, 2008 No Comments »
Remember: consensual erotic power exchange – whatever phrase or group of initials you use to describe it – is about self-fulfillment. Fulfillment for two or more people.
If the bottom, submissive person, slave isn’t happy then he or she will leave. Or be as sad as anyone forcing themselves to stay in a failed relationship.
Likewise […]
Posted in BDSM, Bloggers, Erotic, Fem Domme, Opinion on Jan 11th, 2008 No Comments »
To me, being a Domme means being able to very gently, very persuasively stroke his mind, stirring his wants and needs to such a frenzy that he is begging to give me exactly what I want and leaving him surprised to find that what I want is what he wants also.
Lady Julia
Posted in BDSM, Bloggers, Female Domination, Opinion, hmmm... on Jan 10th, 2008 No Comments »
Dominant women (as they are broadly and consistently portrayed) don’t just get to be mean in fun, likey and likeable ways - being playful and sexualised and motivated by a desire for the sexay, the suffering, the beauty and the bravery. We have to be physically attractive yet mentally repulsive. Motivated only by the evils. […]