Pardon My French

As BDSMers, we tap into the natural human drive to give and to receive pain. We do so fully conscious of what we are doing, and we control and direct the drive with a goal: to give ourselves and/or our partners PLEASURE. It is, perhaps, the hardest concept to explain to the non-kinky masses. We […]

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I thrust my tongue down your throat. I burned with love for your strength as much as I wanted to conquer it.
Richard (in My Beautiful Masochist)

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There are far more submissive people out there than slaves, simply because it’s much more difficult to be a full-time slave. Ironically, it takes a strong person to be an obedient slave. It takes a lot of courage to put one’s feelings and emotions on a shelf and be completely selfless to another person. The […]

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I am a very dominant and sexually oriented woman. I can become very aroused at the thought of getting rough with you. A good hard spanking with my crop is probably just what you need to start your cock throbbing in the clutches of one of my restraints.
Mistress Rayne (Rayne’s Realm)

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It’s hot in here and your skin tastes like meta
(Is that blood?)
I am blade to your flesh
That which bleeds the sin from you
Your tears
Are the salt I rub in your wounds
And your pain
Is my new obsession
I will swallow it whole
Isabel Blyss

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I don’t dislike men. I dislike many things about the way men are encouraged and even *forced* to act. I separate the man himself from his normal behavior, the expectations placed on him, the ways in which he has been given advantages without even being aware of them. Often its through very […]

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The women want a man whose capacity for communication exceeds his cravings:

Write sentences, punctuate and capitalize.
Desire to please in a way that isn’t just a lust to be enslaved.
Whose sexuality isn’t just a checklist of fetishes.
Can relate and respond to her without reducing her to a cliché.

All too many men seem to be caught up […]

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I’m a lifestyle Domme. My philosophy on dominance is very uncomplicated and a bit different than that of many others. For me it’s not about the physical things (although they can be fun!), rather it’s the emotional and cognitive things. I love it that I am able to very gently, very persuasively stroke his […]

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When the fantasy of being dominated supersedes the reality of life, perceptions are skewed, relationships are handicapped, and growth (emotional and sexual) is stunted. Lovers, girlfriends, and wives are compared to the idealized Mistress and can never measure up. This is not only grossly unfair to these (very real!) women; it […]

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Clothes may make the man, but training makes the submissive man.
John (SubmissiveProudMale)

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People often ask Me why I married a submissive husband. My answer is always the same, I have tried the big headed man type and it ALWAYS fails in the relationship area.
They [big headed men] think it is their way or no way and Me being a Dominant Woman that does not fly.
A submissive […]

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There is a girl that crosses her legs, manicured fingers intertwined carefully on her lap.
her pearls give you filthy notions, and her green eyes glitter with suggestion, but she is a tough nut to crack and doesn’t suffer fools.
But that is just one facet.
There is also a girl that loves to […]

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