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Some mornings …

Some mornings, it’s just not worth chewing through the leather straps.
Emo Phillips

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I don’t want a bad boy to treat me wrong and assert his individuality all over my carpet. I want a tractable, studious wimp. I want a shiny 250 pound robot and I want the remote. I want my own personal Jesus to nail up over my bed. I want a disciple to wash […]

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There are many ways of being a dominant. I respect other Dominatrixes in all their different styles. But I think there are misconceptions in the world about how one must behave to be a Domme. I am not an angry person. I do not hate men, and want to punish them […]

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In general I’m positively inclined toward professional dominatrices. Partly because they are often blamed for ills - male behavior and tastes - that aren’t their fault.
Anyone who watches such things can’t help but have noticed over the last couple of years of wannabe virtual ProDommes and the legions of worthless […]

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It is certainly …

It is certainly no crime to depict the bizarre ideas that nature inspires.
Marquis De Sade

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A masochist walked …

A masochist walked up to a sadist, and said ‘Hurt me’. The sadist said ‘No’ and walked away.
Unknown

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Remember: consensual erotic power exchange – whatever phrase or group of initials you use to describe it – is about self-fulfillment. Fulfillment for two or more people.
If the bottom, submissive person, slave isn’t happy then he or she will leave. Or be as sad as anyone forcing themselves to stay in a failed relationship.
Likewise […]

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To me, being a Domme means being able to very gently, very persuasively stroke his mind, stirring his wants and needs to such a frenzy that he is begging to give me exactly what I want and leaving him surprised to find that what I want is what he wants also.
Lady Julia

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Dominant women (as they are broadly and consistently portrayed) don’t just get to be mean in fun, likey and likeable ways - being playful and sexualised and motivated by a desire for the sexay, the suffering, the beauty and the bravery. We have to be physically attractive yet mentally repulsive. Motivated only by the evils. […]

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As BDSMers, we tap into the natural human drive to give and to receive pain. We do so fully conscious of what we are doing, and we control and direct the drive with a goal: to give ourselves and/or our partners PLEASURE. It is, perhaps, the hardest concept to explain to the non-kinky masses. We […]

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I thrust my tongue down your throat. I burned with love for your strength as much as I wanted to conquer it.
Richard (in My Beautiful Masochist)

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There are far more submissive people out there than slaves, simply because it’s much more difficult to be a full-time slave. Ironically, it takes a strong person to be an obedient slave. It takes a lot of courage to put one’s feelings and emotions on a shelf and be completely selfless to another person. The […]

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